Loneliness

Aaahh loneliness......

Have you ever felt that before ? 

I think some of us or probably most of us do. 

Now, what's the definition of loneliness? To me loneliness means being alone in this world with nobody beside you holding your hands . 

The very painful fact about this is unexplainable.

How does loneliness effect us and how does overthinking about it make it worse ?

Being alone in any situation has already make it worse,  right folks ? 

But overthinking about it is like making you suffering in hell ( even though we are not in hell ). 

For example , Lucy feels alone cause she has nobody to talk to or nobody in her life to rely on . However, Lucy overthinks it as she will not be able to be free from loneliness . 

And that overthinking makes Lucy feels 10 times worse . 

But the actual fact is that we , human beings are meant to be lonely in whatever situation cause life is painful and lonely . 

What I meant by whatever situation is you  can be physically lonely, emotionally lonely and psychologically lonely. And that's the sad part of it .

I hope this article of mine helps to explain loneliness.

Thank you . 

- Jocelyn Ng